Monday, November 25, 2013


Marriage isn't easy but if you love your partner, it is always worth fighting for and can be fun and exciting. No marriage is perfect regardless of how hard the test or situation may be, never give up! 
We have to always keep in mind what it is about that person that we fell in love with the first place. We also must remember that "life happens" and whatever life brings you, you must go through it together. Keep God first! in HIM you can never go wrong, He is the CREATOR OF MARRIAGE!!!!!The devil can't tear down a team that is already united but he may succeed in a marriage that's already divided! 
As a woman, we carry so much on us and inside of us that sometimes we feel we are all alone and our spouse doesn't understand, but he does! and sometimes what you'll find is that he understands a lot more than we think or give him credit for! Some if not most men aren't as out spoken as we are on certain things, they need time to process and eliminate first where as us women can handle it right then and there. Patience is key with our men. Prayer is key in our marriages! 

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Women are "daddy's girls" & most women look for men who they see as being like their fathers. So if their father divorced or left their mothers or were cheaters, absent, or abusive, then they have no faith that men will stay or treat them the way they deserve to be treated. Even if their heart desires it, & they communicate that they want it, because deep down inside (sub-consciously) they only expect from men what they have seen from the men they loved, who as they grew up taught & created in them their expectations from men. In revelation women try to raise their sons opposite of how they have seen women treated & or have they have allowed men to treat them. However without being said boys see & understand what their mothers don't want them to see, & even though they are loving & protective of their mothers they most often treat women the same as how they saw their mother's treated by men, or by the spirit of hatred they felt their mothers having in their heart toward men.
This all leaves us where we are as a society, which is most people not trusting anyone, scared & not loving the one, & blaming everyone else for what someone else has done to them in the past.

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Why Many Men Cheat & Most Women Allow It"(Beyond Deep)

Most men cheat because they have been taught to view & value women as their property & not as their partner who has been purposed to them by God. Most men don't seek God when seeking a women, they are led by their flesh. Anything through the flesh is only temporary, because flesh does not have spiritual substance, which is needed to connect souls in love eternally & unconditionally forever. Even deeper most men are taught how to treat women by those who raised them, because men learn how to treat women based on how they see men/fathers treat their mothers/women, or by watching the women who raise them engage in relationships with men. Boys have a different level of connection with their mothers, that's why the phrase "momma's boy" is so relevant, because most boys are & they love their mothers deeply & learn better through their love for them. They have more difficulty with their fathers & or men because many don't want to see themselves in them, because often they don't respect them. However they often grow up to be just like the very men they despise, when they grow up without God's guidance. Which is deep because that means many boys grow up to become what they grew up hating, which is "self-hatred," & inevitably "self-destructive."