Women are "daddy's girls" & most women look for men who they see as being like their fathers. So if their father divorced or left their mothers or were cheaters, absent, or abusive, then they have no faith that men will stay or treat them the way they deserve to be treated. Even if their heart desires it, & they communicate that they want it, because deep down inside (sub-consciously) they only expect from men what they have seen from the men they loved, who as they grew up taught & created in them their expectations from men. In revelation women try to raise their sons opposite of how they have seen women treated & or have they have allowed men to treat them. However without being said boys see & understand what their mothers don't want them to see, & even though they are loving & protective of their mothers they most often treat women the same as how they saw their mother's treated by men, or by the spirit of hatred they felt their mothers having in their heart toward men.
This all leaves us where we are as a society, which is most people not trusting anyone, scared & not loving the one, & blaming everyone else for what someone else has done to them in the past.