Saturday, November 23, 2013
Why Many Men Cheat & Most Women Allow It"(Beyond Deep)
Most men cheat because they have been taught to view & value women as their property & not as their partner who has been purposed to them by God. Most men don't seek God when seeking a women, they are led by their flesh. Anything through the flesh is only temporary, because flesh does not have spiritual substance, which is needed to connect souls in love eternally & unconditionally forever. Even deeper most men are taught how to treat women by those who raised them, because men learn how to treat women based on how they see men/fathers treat their mothers/women, or by watching the women who raise them engage in relationships with men. Boys have a different level of connection with their mothers, that's why the phrase "momma's boy" is so relevant, because most boys are & they love their mothers deeply & learn better through their love for them. They have more difficulty with their fathers & or men because many don't want to see themselves in them, because often they don't respect them. However they often grow up to be just like the very men they despise, when they grow up without God's guidance. Which is deep because that means many boys grow up to become what they grew up hating, which is "self-hatred," & inevitably "self-destructive."